The new year is coming! I am SO READY to walk with you into a new year and a new season of life!!
The appeal of a new beginning to all of us is the opportunity for a “do over,” to wipe the virtual slate clean. But what often happens is quite the opposite. Recently I talked with a friend who is starting over. It’s a complete new start: a new career, a new town, a new perspective in life. My advice to him was simple: make sure you start over and not start again. I feel like that is exactly where I am in life. I think a lot of people miss the point of the start over and find a way to repeat the same mistakes in a different environment, different business, or different relationship. We didn’t learn the lesson we should have learned, so instead of starting over, we start again. It’s just a matter of time before we find ourselves in the same predicament that caused us pain before. I have been stuck there, and it ain’t a good place.
But with every start again, the price we pay gets higher. The second start again is often more expensive than the first. We are older, more cynical, and often less energetic. And in the world of search engines and social networks, a complete fresh start is virtually impossible.
At one point we all have considered a fresh start. Maybe you’re thinking of a career change, ending a long-term relationship, or even both. But before you pull the plug and pay the price that your new beginning requires, you should do some soul searching. A sober look at how you got so far from where you wanted to be and your part in getting there will help you avoid the next chapter of your life look like the last one only with different characters.
Have you had a fresh start before?
What have you learned from it?
P.S.-Don’t forget to click here for the “Proclaimers Retreat” info page! A great weekend you can spend with me as we get equipped for a new season of life! Feb 22-24, 2013 in Memphis Tn.